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人之所以痛苦， 在于追求错误的东西。

如果你不给自己烦恼， 别人也永远不能给你烦恼。 因为你自己的内心， 放不下。

好好管教你自己， 不要管别人。

你随时要认命， 因为你是人。

这个世界本来就是痛苦的， 没有例外的。

你什么时候放下， 什么时候就没有烦恼。

每一种创伤， 都是一种成熟。

当你烦恼的时候，就要告诉自己：这一切都是假的， 你烦恼什么？？

根本不用回头去看咒骂你的人是谁。 如果有条狗咬你一口， 难道你也要趴下去咬它一口吗？

妒忌别人，不会给自己增加任何好处。

妒忌别人， 也不可能减少别人的成就。

永远不要浪费你的一分一秒去想任何你不喜欢的人。

得不到的东西， 我们会一直以为它是美好的， 那时因为你对他的了解太少了， 没有时间与他相处在一起。 当有一天， 你深入了解后， 你会发现原来不是你想像中那么美好的。

这个世界只有圆滑， 没有圆满。

不要刻意去猜测他人的想法， 如果你没有智慧与经验的正确判断， 通常都会有错误的。

你要感谢告诉你缺点的人。

时间总会过去的， 让时间流走你的烦恼吧！

不要因为小小的 争执， 远离了你的至亲好友， 也不要因为小小的怨恨， 忘记了别人的大恩。

感谢上苍我所拥有的， 感谢上苍我所没有的。

当你手中抓住一件东西不放时， 你只能拥有这件东西。 如果你肯放手， 你就有机会选择别的。

人的心若死执自己的观念， 不肯放下， 那么他的智慧也只能达到某种程度而已。

如果你能够平平安安的度过一天， 那就是一种福气了。

有多少人在今天已经见不到明天的太阳，

有多少人在今天已经成了残废，

有多少人在今天已经失去了自由，

有多少人在今天已经家破人亡。

恶口永远不要出自于我们口中，不管他有多坏， 有多恶。你越骂他， 你的心就被污染。 你要想，他就是你的善知识。

你不要常常觉得自己很委屈， 应该要想像， 他对我这样已经很好了， 这就是修行的功夫。

世界本来就不是属於你， 因此你用不着抛弃， 要抛弃的是一切的执着， 万物皆为我所有，但非我所属。

学会用理解的， 欣赏的眼光去看对方， 而不是用自以为是的关心来管对方。

成熟的人不问过去，

聪明的人不问现在，

豁达的人不问未来。

发光并非太阳的专利， 你也可以发光。

你可以用爱得到全世界， 你也可以用恨失去全世界。

爱的力量大到可以使人忘记一切， 却又小到连一粒妒忌的沙石也不能容纳。

人总是珍惜未得到的， 而遗忘了所拥有的。

如果你想要拥有完美无暇的友谊， 可能一辈子找不着朋友。

(Thank you Christmasco, http://christmasco.blogspot.com/)

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Young generation hope for the country-Don't give up

This is quote from ADUN of Subang Jaya - Hannah Yeoh ( Basically, its sum up my political hope for this country, we love Malaysia, We want Change!)


How would a better Malaysia look like for a young couple like us?
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I imagine it to be this :

•free of corruption;

•lower costs of living ie. I don't have to pay so much for monthly car and house installments;
•efficient public transportation, having a car will then be an option and not a necessity;

•my children-to-be will be known as Malaysians only and not be identified by their race;
•quality public education for them when they're young and the opportunity to study whatever course they so desire at a local university, one that adequately prepares them to compete globally;
•affordable health care and quality public hospitals;

•true freedom of worship;

•able to trust what I read in the newspapers daily;
•have confidence in the democratic system, the judiciary, the police, the MACC and other agencies;
•safe environment : no fear of being robbed or houses being broken into and able to walk on the streets freely without grabbing my handbag tightly.
I do not think that the above is too much to ask for. Every taxpaying young working couple wants that for their new family. Many have migrated in search of the above in other countries.

My friends who live and work abroad come home yearly for holiday. To be honest, some days I do envy them when I meet up with them. They seem to be happier and find life and work more rewarding.

Each time I catch up with my friends, they will never fail to ask me, "So how's politics going for you?".

"I don't understand why you want to try so hard to change this country. I have given up hope".

"Any plans to migrate?"

Sure, we all want a better life. I know there are young Malaysians out there who feel the same as I do. You are frustrated with work. You are upset that after paying your monthly bills, you have very little left to pamper yourself. You covet the lifestyle of your friends working abroad. You just want to take the first flight out if you can.

My friends, I say to you again - hang in there! We are still undergoing the process of renovation for a better home, a better nation. When renovating, it is unpleasant, messy, dusty, inconvenient and often times, we cannot imagine the completed work. However, once finished and the smell of fresh paint is up, you will want to move in as soon as you can.

Each time I look at Karpal Singh and Lim Kit Siang, I stand in awe at their perseverance. They have been working and working and working tirelessly for years without fear to make Malaysia a better home for young people like you and I.

I, too must now do the same for our children and chart a new path for others to walk on. Don't give up yet. As U2 would sing it..."Walk on!"

2010 must be better

It is quite ironic when I decided to quit my post, here am I now writing another post, I guess that is what blogging is about, when you feel that you have no one to talk to you, but you got all those in your stomach difficult to digest and even voice out to anyone. Here is it, here is the place to let out the fuss.For those who read my blog especially i think there are 2 or 3 my fellow friend only. Thank you and sorry have make your read this crap. It is quite ironic when I read my new year resolution and wishes, I see a clear and bright sunset which my fellow friend Ah Kean choose to see in 1.1.2010. Yet now is about the middle of January and all I have is disappointments. I think entitled or not a company or a boss should be responsible for the spirit of the worker in a whole, not because for the worker but for the company's benefit alone.Unmotivated employee tend to do fault and mistake, and that is not a good start for any business. I remember I always have these question same as recently one of my facebook fellow post, -why you always cannot get what you want?? the thing you most wish is the thing that Never come to you. And most gift come to you unexpected.and might not as what you want. It is quite ironic when i decided to quit my facebook game, now all that happen is forcing me to the game even deeper.I understand the reason for addicted druggie can't quit the shit because there are no hope in their life. I don;t think the drug itself have any merit and attraction at all. Come bring hope to people life, any human who is living happily is entitled to spread happiness around, there are too many hopeless creature around now, haiti is devastated, europe is freezing, Malaysia is clueless into deeper bodohland. Yet what I hope is 2010 must be better, and you think I will get what I fight for this time?