Confident

When we say confidential, meaning something which is private and not suppose to disclose to anyone except the concerned. When we talk about self estreem or confident to ourself, how we really mean? If a person so much stubborn or holdon to his believe with him/herself, did that mean also he/she is over confident with him/herself? Tonight I got a date with an old friend, seeing me in his eye looking a lot of good changes, new hairstyle, new car, kid etc is giving me undescribed encouragement, It is so glad to be improved in others eyes. It feel good that way. Can I sustain my progess this way? Can I maintain my look as It never get old, can I improve in a pace constantly overwin others? Is this material substance directly impact other's self confident, and hence our outlook as a person? I have no answer to this. My buddhist teaching said 'nothing is matter than our heart,we must alway look after our heart', when our heart is greed and sinful, it doesn;t matter how much achievement we have, how great we are. We are just left with an artificial skin, fake mask that look good on the outside but deterior on the inside. I believe that is true. That is what keep me humble all these time. I hope this attitude is right.