Mission for 2010

Every blogger will write something about 2009, because the time now is 12.18pm 31.12.2009 the last day of 2009 I do not have anything to talk about 2009, just speak the good thing,don;t say the bad thing, so i don;t talk about the pass, i will talk about future. In the future :- I hope I can be a better mother, that mean full time, or at least part time. I hope I can be a better writer, that mean I need to write and firstly read a lot. I hope I can less depend on money, it make people feel and look ugly. I hope my daughter, dad, mum, grand mum, and everyone healthy and happy in everything they do. I hope my job can be more smooth,at least no debtors who is bad enough to scold. I hope the world is less with illness, and war and hatred. I hope people will not die. I think i should not be over wishes for those almost impossible. OK , just wish that i can be improved in my language and social skills. Be more happy. Happy New Year 2010 to all, wish you have a great and prosperous new year ahead.

谈情说爱之我说的爱情

1．真正的爱情是希望他/她过的比你好，希望他/她天天都很开心。但如果你只希望他/她跟你在一起，能带给你快乐，那你并不爱他/她。 2．真正的爱情是在他/她痛苦时，能感受到他/她的痛，愿意跟他/她担当，希望自己能为他/她做一切，让他/他能好起来。但如果你只希望他/她能在你病痛时，给你支持，那你并不爱他/她。 3．真正的爱情是你会与爱人所拥有的一切而开心，不开心的也能分享。 4．真正的爱情不会为了对方外表的老去，而逝去。 5．真正的爱情不会赖对方拖累你。 6．真正的爱情不会在脾气不好时动用武力。 7．真正的爱情会带来希望，因为知道有一个人在背后默默支持。 8．真正的爱情能用心了解对方的心思，去理解，去感受，去配合，去成全。 9．真正的爱情建立在彼此之间的信任，这种信任可以随着时间与经历所增加或减少。如果刚开始的爱情是零分，到了半百时还手牵手的爱情应该有50 分，过几年就厌倦的应该是减50分，这世上有人能拥有100 分的爱情吗? 那如果爱情总是零分也还是好的。 10．希望大家能好好经营自己的爱情，有情人终成眷属的条件还是要当个有情人。